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It is normal to experience a reaction after a serious incident
After a serious incident, it is normal for your thoughts to center on the experience. It can affect your body and mood.
The most common reactions are:
- mood swings where you are easily moved to tears or become angry quickly
- trouble sleeping
- nightmares
- anxiety, often accompanied by trembling, sweating or palpitations
- a sense of surrealness or emptiness
- feeling guilty
- fatigue
- decreased appetite
- headaches
- shortness of breath
- reduced sex drive.
Speak with others about your experience
It is a good idea to talk to others about what happened in order to process the experience and begin to move on.
Be mindful of alcohol and sedatives
Increased use of alcohol or sedatives can make it harder to process the experience.
Get moving and spend time outdoors
After a traumatic experience, it is normal for your nervous system to stay on high alert for a while. Your nervous system will return to balance more easily if you eat healthily, stay active and get fresh air every day.
Contact your general practitioner if your reactions to the incident do not subside
In time, you will stop focusing on the incident. However, if your reactions last a long time or impact your daily life, you should contact your general practitioner and possibly get a referral to a psychologist.
Support your child if your child has experienced a serious incident
Children react very differently to traumatic events depending on their age, the reactions of their caregivers and community, etc.
It is important that you speak succinctly and clearly with your child about what happened and what is going to happen. Your child will need increased consolation and to be around you or other adults that they know well.
Inform your child’s teachers or preschool teachers about what has happened and ensure that their friends are notified and have the opportunity to talk openly about the incident.
Keep an eye on your child and seek help if necessary
You cannot always tell how your child is feeling or what they are thinking, and your child may not be able to verbalize it. This is why you should monitor your child and their reactions closely after a traumatic incident. Your child may:
- have anxiety attacks
- experience mood swings
- become irritable
- feel sad
- change behaviour
- become withdrawn
- have difficulty concentrating
- have trouble sleeping
- have stomach aches or headaches
- feel guilty about what happened.
Speak with your child’s general practitioner, the school psychologist or another professional if you need support and guidance.
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Get more knowledge
Learn more about trauma and shock reactions
Learn more about trauma and shock reactions at www.patienthåndbogen.dk (in Danish only). Search for ’krisereaktioner’.
Contact Victim Support Denmark
You can get immediate and free support from Victim Support Denmark by calling 116 006. You will remain anonymous when you call. You can also read more about Victim Support Denmark at https://offerraadgivning.dk/about-victim-support-denmark/..
Family counselling and urgent help
Municipalities and various private organisations can help you if problems arise for you or your family. Read more at www.borger.dk (in Danish only). Search for 'Familierådgivning og akut hjælp'.